Pretty girls vs. Pretty girls

lately i've been thinking about how women can be so intimidated by the next woman that they feel looks better than she or in some cases is doing better(what ever that mean..money or status wise i guess)...

I can say that I use to have this bad...due to issues with myself and not knowing my own self worth, having low self esteem, being jealous, and not knowing who i am (i still working on it). the jealousy is no longer there nor the low self esteem but the level of me getting to know myself is growing continuously so I can say i'm growing out of this bad trait.
anyway. i witness how the prettiest girls get jealous over another woman that they they feel may talk or associate with the same guy they do...or have the same job as she and the attention is now taken away from her and on to the new pretty girl.

Ladies why? Why be jealous of the next lady. Ok to a certain degree i can understand you maybe use to being the "pretty girl" in the spot that all the men wanna get at and as soon as a new chic come along that YOU feel looks better or is smarter, and all the men are suddenly no longer paying you attentionl etc you feel your turf has been violated.

What i can't understand is the length that some "pretty" women take to gain back their status to be noticed as the "finest" "smartest" etc. They began to hate on the new pretty woman, talk down about her, set her up, and just do stupid shit like talk bad about them, taking from them, refusing to help, or they will smile in the lady face then back stab her ass.

That i use to do in highschool cuz i was silly but i no longer do because it's don't make sense to me to do it. But as i got older I began to stay mad at myself...and tried to do things to keep the guy attention. Never did i ever hate on the chic or smile in her face and stab her behind her back because i felt her as a threat i did all the negative thinking in my head. I guess you can say i'm not good with competition...lol. But it began to be seen as a process i was going through. Eventually the negative thoughts in my head stopped. Because i accepted and respected her level of smartness, status, and beauty.

Being jealous over another woman's looks or status in your realm is silly. I've come across lots of beautiful women and working with them. By me constantly working and seeing them that help me to understand that the world is full of beautiful women and i am one of them. Its something unique and different about us all so why be mad at one that you feel looks better or is doing better than you? I understand why i did it when i was younger. But to do it now would be the silliest shit ever...smh. I can't be mad at her. She didn't ask for her looks they were giving...she may have worked her ass off to get her status, and you never know that level of smartness may have been forced on her. but she's still beautiful and we have to respect each other.

for instance. I was talking to this one guy. i didn't want anything serious with him. Just wanted to be cool and get some good sex'n in here and there. We had an understanding. Eventually he informed me that he had a new chic which i wasn't surprised due to other stuff he shared with me. I'm thinking oh it's cool. And he told me who she was. I thought she was cute and cool and was like oh well if we all hang out it's cool with me i don't mind. If he was with me and she called it didn't bother me that he answered...i'd speak and everything. I if i called him and he was with her i'd still speak and out of respect give them their time. Not once did i hate on her or get mad at her because she indeed was a very pretty girl. But from my understanding she hated my guts...from my undertanding she was intimidated by me....from my understanding she hated on everything about me...smh why? there is alot wrong with this situation but i won't go into further details. but the point is i never hated her...disrespected her...or talk down to her because she was cool with the same guy i was and a beautiful woman. I respected her, her place, her status, and her beauty. Keep in mind i was cool wit the guy and eveutally removed all emotional and sexual attachments after a certain point due to certain issues and still i didn't hate the girl or be mad at her. but from my understanding she hated my guts. Why? I know and I don't know.

Ladies we have to get over these silly egos. Beyonce' got ya'll heads stuck up her ass and ya'll own ass that you feel you are the prettiest thing walking and that can't nobody replace you or take your spot...good to have confidence but when it comes to you feeling another woman looks better than you and you get mad and forget your beauty and get all mixed up in hers and loose your self it's becomes a problem.

Can't we stop with the competition. Remember we all will have our time to shine and be on top and when you are up there enjoy it and trust you will still shine in your own way. If you know who you are and what you are capable of and your own worth...another woman's beauty would not intimidate you but it should lift your spirit to see such beauty in another form instead of your own.

Stop being mad...stop being jealous...and please stop hating on the beauty/status of another woman...respect that shit and keep your shit tight!!!!